It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle
Original title: eng. It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle · 2016
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Implementation Notes
- Exploring family history: Understand what traumas and events may have affected ancestors to recognize their impact on one's own life.
- Awareness of recurring patterns: Identify recurring emotional and behavioral patterns that may be inherited from previous generations.
- Working with emotions: Learn to recognize and express suppressed emotions that may be linked to family history.
- Creating new connections: Establish new, positive connections with family history to change the perception and influence of the past.
- Practicing gratitude and forgiveness: Develop gratitude towards ancestors and practice forgiveness to release negative emotions and patterns.
- Using visualization and meditation: Apply visualization and meditation techniques to work with inherited memory and emotional blocks.
- Seeking professional help: If necessary, consult a therapist or family systems specialist for in-depth work on inherited traumas.

Date of publication: 1 February 2025
Last updated: 10 February 2025
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Genre: Psychology