How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

Exercises

• Active Listening: Listen attentively to the child, reflecting their feelings and words so they feel understood.
• Acknowledging Feelings: Acknowledge and accept the child's feelings, even if you don't like them or find them insignificant.
• Alternatives to Punishment: Instead of punishment, offer the child choices or alternative ways to solve the problem.
• Encouraging Cooperation: Use descriptive praise and encouragement to motivate the child to cooperate.
• Using Descriptive Language: Describe what you see or feel instead of criticizing or blaming.
• Joint Problem Solving: Involve the child in the process of finding solutions so they feel significant and responsible.
• Setting Boundaries: Clearly and calmly set boundaries and rules, explaining their necessity and consequences.